Now it came about when [David] had finished speaking to Saul, that the soul of Jonathan was knit to the soul of David, and Jonathan loved him as himself.
! Samuel 18:1
People of faith are drawn to one another.
The friendship of David and Jonathan was truly remarkable. From a human standpoint, this friendship should have never happened, or it should have fallen apart under the severe stresses of the following years. Yet each pledged his life to the other. They completely identified with one another (the giving of the clothes and weapons was an indication of this strong bond). And both men remained true to this covenant regardless of circumstances – in David’s case, even beyond Jonathan’s death. Jonathan’s love for David was not based upon David’s success against Goliath, it had much deeper roots. And, because of that, their friendship stood the test of time.
What was it that drew these men together? How did this friendship transcend the differences of economic status and social position? Where did the firm foundation of this friendship come from? After all, David had been anointed to take Jonathan’s “rightful place” as king of
David and Jonathan were very much alike in their trust of God and in their walk of faith. They were both young men of faith, men who loved the Lord. And this love seems to be what drew them together. Even within the covenant community of God’s people, there are those who are more deeply committed to trusting God in every circumstance of life, and these “men of faith” are drawn to one another. David and Jonathan must have each recognized this characteristic in the other, for a man of faith instinctively recognizes a kindred spirit. David had just given a graphic example of his faith in God on the battlefield, and God had honored his faith with a great victory. Jonathan was also a warrior of faith. (see 1 Sam. 14:6-15, where, immediately before going into battle against overwhelming odds, Jonathan says, “Perhaps the Lord will work for us, for the Lord is not restrained to save by many or by few.”) Jonathan had just watched David topple Goliath, and recognized in him the same commitment to the Lord. Also, they were both men of action, who each saw action as the best way of serving God. And they were men who had committed their lives to following the Lord, whatever the cost. This kinship was based, then, on their love for and faith in God. This is what enabled them to be utterly selfless in their friendship.
In this friendship we can see again our Lord Jesus foreshadowed. He is the Son of the King who set His love upon unworthy, unknown commoners. He is the one who has clothed us with His own robe of perfect righteousness (
David and Jonathan also exemplify the kind of relationship we ought to seek and sustain with our fellow believers. Their friendship is an OT pattern for the love of the brethren (Rom. 12:10ff) – a covenantal commitment to one another founded upon a mutual love for and faith in God. This relationship is stronger than all other human relationships. It is the pattern for a Christian marriage, both in its inception and in its outworking. It is stronger than family ties (Note that Jonathan actually opposed his father for David’s sake). And it is stronger than our friendships with non-Christians. May the Lord bless us with such friendships and may our friends spur us on to greater faith as we serve the Lord together.